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From Judgement to Emancipation

Spiritual Counseling Tip: Humans are slowly moving away from a punitive mindset. The culture of judgment and hesitancy to give humans the benefit of the doubt is waning. That harsh shadow approach to controlling behavior has forced us into the consciousness of Spirit. We have needed this contrast to align ourselves with the truth of our innate divinity. This consciousness judges no one for anything, for any reason. This Spirit is our inner guidance back to unconditional love. It is there that humans find clarity and fruition of the expanded heart. We view our weaknesses, hurtful actions, and our unhealed patterns through the eyes of eternity and by the power of truth. That truth says that no one is ever separated from the origins of love. And that we all originated in the Source of love. Each of us is born perfect and we maintain that perfection and innocence in each lifetime. Yes, there will be consequences of our “mistakes” and those consequences are used to lovingly nudge the human toward greater awareness of their divinity. The more that humans understand their divinity, the more they transcend their past, their unaware culture and their internalized family history. This is the evolution of humanity. More healers are coming forward to assist in this leap in consciousness from judgment to love, from guilt to clarity and from programmed consciousness to original consciousness. A good mantra: I am willing to experience my divinity. My body agrees.

Spiritual Counseling Tips-Gaining Freedom from Mom Wound

For those gaining the freedom from Mom wound.

Spiritual Counseling Tips: One of the most powerful reconciliations a human can have is with our mothers. Even if we must conduct that reconciliation within our own broken hearts, a safe distance from the suction of the past, a new freedom can lift us into an astounding peace. We can shift mountains of grief from a soft-hearted distance. Even if she is no longer in physical from, the unseen cord of life can be transformed into a vibration of acceptance. The animosity and resentment of experiencing her unhealed wounds will no longer block the flow of exuberant life wanting to exist in our lifetime. Her betrayals and rejections are broken into manageable pieces of gold that are then used for our own lives. And if we have children, they have the benefit of traveling without the burden of generational pain.

The slightest bit of willingness clears a section within us for more love to reside. And when that love is for a mother who could not love us in the way we needed to be loved, we free her and ourselves from a tether anchored in the shadow of inert hope. The little child within us that has been grasping onto the despair of disappointment, releases the grasp of that disappointment. A healing takes place that changes the past, the present and the future.  A strangling contraction loosens and an expanded life flows through our veins. Our cellular memory receives new information and new memories are invited to become a part of our lives.  Nothing in the past has changed and yet the new perception alters our minds. The child within us has been updated and now she can relax.

What is a Spiritual Counselor?


 Many people are now looking for opportunities to expand further into a deeper and personal jurisdiction of their own truth. They have felt something- an energy, a force, flashes of insight, but what they have sensed does not fit within the realm of structured religions. They see that the world is off track and religion has sometimes done more to perpetuate the pain in humanity than it has to assuage it. They feel that they are evolving (this word comes from Latin evolutio, which denoted specifically the unrolling of a papyrus or parchment roll) further into the understanding of who they are as Spirit Beings or Energy Beings living in human form. Through the centuries, the mystics have revealed to us the possibility of the spirit within and many humans are now discovering that truth for themselves. But how do they reconcile what they have been taught in their childhood and culture with what they have felt within their own mind and heart? Where can they go to discover how they may live in authentic relationship to the world they were born into?  They sense that the knowledge they seek is within them but how do they get there from where they stand?


    Spiritual Counselors simply recognize the inner spiritual influence in each person’s life and offer to show the client the magnificence of what they see.  When we live from a place of our magnificent Spiritual Self, our human self can experience the ease in which life can be lived. They assist people in their journey toward spiritual clarity. If the client feels she or he has suffered from religious dogma and feels that this hinders her or him in following the inner spiritual urge, the Spiritual Counselor assists the client to heal this wound and to help with the disconnection they feel from their inner spirit.  Spiritual Counselors can support people as they tap into the part of themselves they have suspected was there all along and teach them how to live from that place of acuity. They are a bridge that helps people cross over from lack of spiritual identity to a solid understanding of relationship to their inner Spirit.  In our near future, there will be as many Spiritual Counselors as there presently are psychological and emotional therapists. The world is slowly recognizing the need for this type of help in our human walk.


As a Spiritual Counselor, I know that regardless of the religious background or the many erroneous beliefs that undermine our true contentedness on this earth, our inner spirit is moving us toward the expansion of our authentic power. In my healing practice, I assist my clients, workshop attendees, and retreat participants by intense listening and sacred acknowledgment of that spiritual expansion.  I know that the life force in them has always nudged them toward their highest potential and it will continue to do so. It cannot help itself.

There is a great need for a clear identity of who we truly are on this earthly journey. Our spirits want us to know the power that we are a part of and how to be free from the entanglements of the mind and man-made religions.   This earth is a paradise on which we can live joyful and exuberant lives. The only obstacle in the way of that peaceful lifestyle is the belief that we are flawed human beings destined to live out lives of small thinking in bondage to self-defeating beliefs. Our worth is not what we do or what we have done but in whom we are as Source Energy.  I am a bridge that assists people toward this powerful wisdom.